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Past Questions:
Q: My daughter has ADHD and has trouble keeping her room tidy. She frequently loses things (including mine), and gets overwhelmed by all her clutter. How can I make it a calmer environment for her while still giving her access to all the things she enjoys doing in her room?
A: The visual noise of a cluttered or overcrowded room is especially overwhelming for individuals with ADD/ADHD. Too many choices of activity can also contribute to the problem. Ask her to choose her favorite 2 or 3 activities to engage in in her room and remove all the others to a different room, or store those items away out of sight. You can rotate them out if she gets bored with the activities she has chosen. Next, introduce a sense of calm and quiet by drastically reducing the number of knickknacks, artwork and toys in her room. Too much color can also overstimulate her senses, so you may want to stick with more neutral tones and just a colorful pop here and there. Lots of empty space - on the walls and surfaces, as well as in the drawers and closet- may feel a bit bare at first but will create a quieter, more relaxed mood. While this may feel like you are taking something away from her, you are actually giving her something far more valuable...the gift of calm and focus she needs.
A: The visual noise of a cluttered or overcrowded room is especially overwhelming for individuals with ADD/ADHD. Too many choices of activity can also contribute to the problem. Ask her to choose her favorite 2 or 3 activities to engage in in her room and remove all the others to a different room, or store those items away out of sight. You can rotate them out if she gets bored with the activities she has chosen. Next, introduce a sense of calm and quiet by drastically reducing the number of knickknacks, artwork and toys in her room. Too much color can also overstimulate her senses, so you may want to stick with more neutral tones and just a colorful pop here and there. Lots of empty space - on the walls and surfaces, as well as in the drawers and closet- may feel a bit bare at first but will create a quieter, more relaxed mood. While this may feel like you are taking something away from her, you are actually giving her something far more valuable...the gift of calm and focus she needs.
Q: I usually do my daughter's hair in the living room before we rush out the door, but I don't have a good spot to store all her hair items there, so they end up spread out all over the place and then we can never find things when we are in a hurry. What do you suggest?
A: Store all her hair items in a small basket in the bathroom or her bedroom. Ask her to bring you the hair basket when you are ready to do her hair. Make sure everything goes back into the basket when you are done and have her put it back in its designated spot. Not only are you keeping everything orderly and easily transportable, you are sharing with her the responsibility of keeping it that way.
A: Store all her hair items in a small basket in the bathroom or her bedroom. Ask her to bring you the hair basket when you are ready to do her hair. Make sure everything goes back into the basket when you are done and have her put it back in its designated spot. Not only are you keeping everything orderly and easily transportable, you are sharing with her the responsibility of keeping it that way.
Q: How do I organize all the artwork my kids are constantly bringing home from school? I can't bring myself to throw them out, but we are being overrun! Help!
A: This is an issue many parents of prolific young artists face. There are several possible solutions you can try, or perhaps try a combination of these suggestions:
1) Purchase a scrapbook with plastic pages for each child and have them select their favorites to go in this "portfolio" they can proudly take with them to Grandma's house.
2) Establish a gallery wall somewhere in your home where favorite pieces can be displayed for an established length of time, or until a new favorite comes along. This can be in the form of a wire "clothesline", a collection of clipboards, or frames with magnets on the back (used on a magnetic surface, of course) that are easy to switch out.
3) Hang a hinged, glass-covered shadow box on the wall and simply add new pictures to the front of it until it is full. Then have your artist select one or two favorites to keep and eliminate the rest.
4) After displaying the artwork for a set period of time, have your child pick only their favorites (give them a number) to keep in a keepsake box or scrapbook.
5) Take a photo of the artwork before tossing it. These digital photos can be used in a variety of ways to preserve your memories without taking up valuable storage space. There are many apps available that allow you to record the date, artist and a description, as well.
6) Find creative ways to turn the artwork into something useful or use it up, like laminating it to use as a placemat, wrapping a gift in it, or using it as a book cover.
Whichever method you use, involving your child in the decision-making process of what to keep and what to pitch is an important step in teaching them how to let go of things and spare them a lifetime of clutter. It also saves you from the guilt of throwing away something if they are the ones making the decision.
A: This is an issue many parents of prolific young artists face. There are several possible solutions you can try, or perhaps try a combination of these suggestions:
1) Purchase a scrapbook with plastic pages for each child and have them select their favorites to go in this "portfolio" they can proudly take with them to Grandma's house.
2) Establish a gallery wall somewhere in your home where favorite pieces can be displayed for an established length of time, or until a new favorite comes along. This can be in the form of a wire "clothesline", a collection of clipboards, or frames with magnets on the back (used on a magnetic surface, of course) that are easy to switch out.
3) Hang a hinged, glass-covered shadow box on the wall and simply add new pictures to the front of it until it is full. Then have your artist select one or two favorites to keep and eliminate the rest.
4) After displaying the artwork for a set period of time, have your child pick only their favorites (give them a number) to keep in a keepsake box or scrapbook.
5) Take a photo of the artwork before tossing it. These digital photos can be used in a variety of ways to preserve your memories without taking up valuable storage space. There are many apps available that allow you to record the date, artist and a description, as well.
6) Find creative ways to turn the artwork into something useful or use it up, like laminating it to use as a placemat, wrapping a gift in it, or using it as a book cover.
Whichever method you use, involving your child in the decision-making process of what to keep and what to pitch is an important step in teaching them how to let go of things and spare them a lifetime of clutter. It also saves you from the guilt of throwing away something if they are the ones making the decision.
Q: I feel like I'm constantly pulled in too many directions, between my job, housework, kids, volunteer work and errands. How do I get everything done and still have at least a little time to relax?
A: Finding time to re-charge your battery is not only essential...it's totally do-able. As with everything else, it just requires a little advance planning. First, make an appointment with yourself every week to create a plan of attack for the week ahead. (I suggest Sunday night.) If you don't already use a calendar, start now and put this planning time on it. Try your best to do this in a quiet space free from interruptions so that you can concentrate. View this time as an essential ingredient in creating a stress-free week. Begin each planning session by brainstorming all the things you need to do in the week ahead...errands, emails, projects, appointments, chores, and yes - relaxation time. Delegate as many tasks as you can and decide when/how you will tackle the remaining items in the week ahead. Create a daily schedule and tasks list and review it each morning. Tweak the plan as necessary as you move forward through your week. You'll find this method much less stressful than just winging it!
A: Finding time to re-charge your battery is not only essential...it's totally do-able. As with everything else, it just requires a little advance planning. First, make an appointment with yourself every week to create a plan of attack for the week ahead. (I suggest Sunday night.) If you don't already use a calendar, start now and put this planning time on it. Try your best to do this in a quiet space free from interruptions so that you can concentrate. View this time as an essential ingredient in creating a stress-free week. Begin each planning session by brainstorming all the things you need to do in the week ahead...errands, emails, projects, appointments, chores, and yes - relaxation time. Delegate as many tasks as you can and decide when/how you will tackle the remaining items in the week ahead. Create a daily schedule and tasks list and review it each morning. Tweak the plan as necessary as you move forward through your week. You'll find this method much less stressful than just winging it!
Q: What's the best way to store my off-season clothes?
A: Switching your off-season clothes is a nuisance, especially these days, when unseasonally-warm or cold days have become common. Instead of moving them every few months, I recommend paring down your wardrobe to a manageable size so that you have access to all of it year-round.
Some tips for using your available space more efficiently:
1) Hang as much as possible and use thin hangers. This is a more efficient use of vertical space and makes it easier to find what you need.
2) Double your hanging space with high and low rods in the closet.
3) Utilize the backs of doors for storing shoes, belts, scarves, hats, etc. Shoe pockets aren't just for shoes!
4) Add shelves to your room above the doors to store infequently-worn items in bins or baskets.
5) Store outerwear and frequently-worn shoes near your front door instead of in your bedroom.
6) Use the Marie Kondo method of folding clothes stored in drawers to use the space more efficiently and make it easier to find what you need. (Google it...it makes a big difference!)
If you still don't have enough room for everything, store the bulkiest/least used off-season items in vacuum storage bags or roll-out bins under the bed, rather than moving them to a more remote area of the house. This will make retrieval much easier if you need to access something unexpectedly.
A: Switching your off-season clothes is a nuisance, especially these days, when unseasonally-warm or cold days have become common. Instead of moving them every few months, I recommend paring down your wardrobe to a manageable size so that you have access to all of it year-round.
Some tips for using your available space more efficiently:
1) Hang as much as possible and use thin hangers. This is a more efficient use of vertical space and makes it easier to find what you need.
2) Double your hanging space with high and low rods in the closet.
3) Utilize the backs of doors for storing shoes, belts, scarves, hats, etc. Shoe pockets aren't just for shoes!
4) Add shelves to your room above the doors to store infequently-worn items in bins or baskets.
5) Store outerwear and frequently-worn shoes near your front door instead of in your bedroom.
6) Use the Marie Kondo method of folding clothes stored in drawers to use the space more efficiently and make it easier to find what you need. (Google it...it makes a big difference!)
If you still don't have enough room for everything, store the bulkiest/least used off-season items in vacuum storage bags or roll-out bins under the bed, rather than moving them to a more remote area of the house. This will make retrieval much easier if you need to access something unexpectedly.
Q: I feel like I can never keep up with my house! How do I keep the clutter at bay?
A: It's simple. Just get in the habit of putting everything away as soon as you are done using it. Not just big things...every single thing. Make sure everything is put away before bedtime and before leaving the house. Set up bins or baskets for things belonging to other family members for them to put away. Once you have developed this habit, it will become automatic. Obviously, assigning homes for every single thing makes this much easier because you don't have to think about where it goes...you can just go on auto-pilot and it truly only takes a few minutes, or even just a few seconds. But even if you haven't done that yet, just start by putting things away where you think they should go (or as close to it as you can get) as soon as you're done using them.
A: It's simple. Just get in the habit of putting everything away as soon as you are done using it. Not just big things...every single thing. Make sure everything is put away before bedtime and before leaving the house. Set up bins or baskets for things belonging to other family members for them to put away. Once you have developed this habit, it will become automatic. Obviously, assigning homes for every single thing makes this much easier because you don't have to think about where it goes...you can just go on auto-pilot and it truly only takes a few minutes, or even just a few seconds. But even if you haven't done that yet, just start by putting things away where you think they should go (or as close to it as you can get) as soon as you're done using them.
Q: We have a small alcove I'd like to use as a reading nook for my daughter, but the space is too small for both seating and bookshelves. We currently store books on a wall shelf, but it's too high for her to reach on her own. Do you have any suggestions?
A: Yes! Get double-duty out of your seating by creating a storage bench. Simply place comfy seat cushions and pillows on top of storage trunk, or turn a shelf on its side and place cushions on top, as shown in this photo from Pinterest.
A: Yes! Get double-duty out of your seating by creating a storage bench. Simply place comfy seat cushions and pillows on top of storage trunk, or turn a shelf on its side and place cushions on top, as shown in this photo from Pinterest.
Q: I have a lot of items that are no longer usable to me and cannot be donated but seem like they should be usable to the right person. It seems a shame to just throw them away, but how do I find someone who can use them?
A: Don't hang onto stuff you won't use just because you don't want to throw it in the trash. One man's trash is often another man's treasure, as they say. Offer it up for free on Freecycle, Nextdoor or at any online local yard sale site on social media. You can visit www.freecycle.org to find and join a Freecycle group near you!
A: Don't hang onto stuff you won't use just because you don't want to throw it in the trash. One man's trash is often another man's treasure, as they say. Offer it up for free on Freecycle, Nextdoor or at any online local yard sale site on social media. You can visit www.freecycle.org to find and join a Freecycle group near you!
Q: Every summer my grocery bill triples because my kids won't stop eating! How do I keep them from binge-eating junk food and eating me out of house and home?
A: Give them each their own snack basket (like this one from Handmade With Love Crafts) filled with their daily snack allowance. When it’s empty, they’re done snacking for the day. This not only encourages healthier eating habits, it also teaches them about self-discipline!
A: Give them each their own snack basket (like this one from Handmade With Love Crafts) filled with their daily snack allowance. When it’s empty, they’re done snacking for the day. This not only encourages healthier eating habits, it also teaches them about self-discipline!
Q: Our spare room is a huge mess! It has become a dumping ground for all sorts of things and has no organization to it whatsoever. Everything is just in a giant pile on the bed...I don't even know where to begin. It's overwhelming! What do you suggest?
A: Here's an approach I find works for most of my clients:
Step 1: Collect a bunch of bags, boxes or bins...nothing fancy, just whatever you have on hand, along with a sharpie and maybe post-its for creating temporary labels. (Bags you can write on, like the ones pictured above, are ideal.)
Step 2: Starting literally anywhere in your pile, pick up an item, decide if you still need/want it. If so, determine what room it belongs in. If it belongs in the spare room, set it aside in a new pile. If it belongs in a different room, label a bag/box for that room and put the item in it. If not, determine if it is donate-able or trash and put it in either a bag/box marked "Donate" or in a trash bag. Continue doing this for as long as you can, creating bags for each new room. If you are unsure what room an item should go in, just choose your best option. You can always change your mind later.
Step 3: At the end of your organizing session, deliver the room bags to their respective rooms. You can either end your session here or move on to Step 4.
Step 4 (can be done at a different time): Put away as many of the items in each room bag as you can as soon as you can. If you are unsure where in the room it should go, keep it in the bag for now. You can make a home for it when you organize that room on another day. If you empty the bag, return it to the spare room for use in the next session until the pile in the spare room is clear.
Step 5: Once you've gone through the entire pile, remove the donate and trash items and work on creating homes in the spare room for each item you set aside to remain in that room.
The key to this approach is to remain focused on one space at a time. Resist the urge to start organizing another room before you have finished the first.
A: Here's an approach I find works for most of my clients:
Step 1: Collect a bunch of bags, boxes or bins...nothing fancy, just whatever you have on hand, along with a sharpie and maybe post-its for creating temporary labels. (Bags you can write on, like the ones pictured above, are ideal.)
Step 2: Starting literally anywhere in your pile, pick up an item, decide if you still need/want it. If so, determine what room it belongs in. If it belongs in the spare room, set it aside in a new pile. If it belongs in a different room, label a bag/box for that room and put the item in it. If not, determine if it is donate-able or trash and put it in either a bag/box marked "Donate" or in a trash bag. Continue doing this for as long as you can, creating bags for each new room. If you are unsure what room an item should go in, just choose your best option. You can always change your mind later.
Step 3: At the end of your organizing session, deliver the room bags to their respective rooms. You can either end your session here or move on to Step 4.
Step 4 (can be done at a different time): Put away as many of the items in each room bag as you can as soon as you can. If you are unsure where in the room it should go, keep it in the bag for now. You can make a home for it when you organize that room on another day. If you empty the bag, return it to the spare room for use in the next session until the pile in the spare room is clear.
Step 5: Once you've gone through the entire pile, remove the donate and trash items and work on creating homes in the spare room for each item you set aside to remain in that room.
The key to this approach is to remain focused on one space at a time. Resist the urge to start organizing another room before you have finished the first.
Q: I'm a pretty neat and organized person, except when it comes to my pantry. No matter how organized I make it, it seems like every time I go grocery shopping I have to re-do it just to fit everything in. What am I doing wrong?
A: It sounds like you are making one common - and very crucial - mistake when you organize. You are organizing your space based on what you currently need to store instead of what you potentially need to store. Always consider the amount of space a particular item will require right after you've just stocked up. If you typically buy a 32-pack of granola bars, for example, allow space for at least 32 granola bars in your pantry instead of just the five you may currently have on hand at the moment. (In fact, allow for about 37, because you will probably have a few left when you buy more.) If you are filling up every nook and cranny before shopping, you will never have enough space to put all your groceries away after shopping. Always leave some room to grow in any area of your home so that you don't have to reinvent the wheel every time you acquire something new. This may require you to re-think your current organization, but at least you won't have to re-do it after every shopping trip.
A: It sounds like you are making one common - and very crucial - mistake when you organize. You are organizing your space based on what you currently need to store instead of what you potentially need to store. Always consider the amount of space a particular item will require right after you've just stocked up. If you typically buy a 32-pack of granola bars, for example, allow space for at least 32 granola bars in your pantry instead of just the five you may currently have on hand at the moment. (In fact, allow for about 37, because you will probably have a few left when you buy more.) If you are filling up every nook and cranny before shopping, you will never have enough space to put all your groceries away after shopping. Always leave some room to grow in any area of your home so that you don't have to reinvent the wheel every time you acquire something new. This may require you to re-think your current organization, but at least you won't have to re-do it after every shopping trip.
Q: I live in a tiny apartment with very little storage, especially in the bathroom. Do you have any suggestions for making better use of my space?
A: Try installing a shelf above the bathroom door for storing baskets of extra toiletries or cleaning supplies, spare towels or rolls of toilet paper (see photos). Ideally, you would store things you access infrequently. This little trick can be used in any room. You'll be amazed at how much additional storage you can glean with a little vertical magic!
A: Try installing a shelf above the bathroom door for storing baskets of extra toiletries or cleaning supplies, spare towels or rolls of toilet paper (see photos). Ideally, you would store things you access infrequently. This little trick can be used in any room. You'll be amazed at how much additional storage you can glean with a little vertical magic!
Q: I have a strong sentimental attachment to certain objects and just can't part with them. My husband gets frustrated with me because he says we have too much clutter, but I don't want to throw out all my memories!
A: Great news, Anne! You can eliminate a lot of clutter by replacing some of the everyday mundane items in your home that are serving a purely functional purpose with the sentimental objects. Some examples of creative ways my clients are using this strategy:
A: Great news, Anne! You can eliminate a lot of clutter by replacing some of the everyday mundane items in your home that are serving a purely functional purpose with the sentimental objects. Some examples of creative ways my clients are using this strategy:
- Store plastic bags in mom's old cake carrier
- Use grandma's silver teapot as a pen caddy in your home office and her creamer to hold paper clips (pictured above)
- Create a charging station out of the old letter holder mom brought back from Germany
- Place outgoing mail in the cute business card holder your favoite co-worker gave you for your birthday
Q: My house is such a cluttered mess I don’t even know where to start! What’s the best place to begin my purging?
A: Where you start is not nearly as important as that you start. There is no right or wrong answer, but one easy way to jump-start your organizing project is to reduce the most common cluttermakers in your home, as listed on this chart. Once you are “in the groove”, it will become easier and a natural progression will begin to emerge. Stay focused on one category or area at a time and avoid getting side-tracked.
A: Where you start is not nearly as important as that you start. There is no right or wrong answer, but one easy way to jump-start your organizing project is to reduce the most common cluttermakers in your home, as listed on this chart. Once you are “in the groove”, it will become easier and a natural progression will begin to emerge. Stay focused on one category or area at a time and avoid getting side-tracked.
Q: We have a vast collection of interesting and unique seashells from our time living abroad that are taking up too much space now that we have downsized to a smaller home. Our kids and grandkids are not interested in them, but it seems a shame to just throw them in the trash. Is there a way to donate them to someone who would appreciate them?
A: Yes! These are wonderful learning tools for a preschool or summer camp. Also check with local art schools or crafters. Many people also use shells in their home decor or gardens, especially if they own a beach house. If you are not able to find a recipient through these channels, try offering them on Freecycle (learn more about Freecycle here).
A: Yes! These are wonderful learning tools for a preschool or summer camp. Also check with local art schools or crafters. Many people also use shells in their home decor or gardens, especially if they own a beach house. If you are not able to find a recipient through these channels, try offering them on Freecycle (learn more about Freecycle here).
Q: No matter how many clothes I get rid of, my closet rod always feels jam-packed and messy. It's hard to find things or even to find a hanger to hang things back up.
A: Empty hangers eat up a lot of space in your closet. Only keep as many as will neatly fit on the rod and still give you some room for sliding. Use this as a guide for how many clothes to keep. If you are at maximum hanger usage, you must eliminate an item for every new item you purchase rather than buying more hangers. One way to make more sliding room on the rod is to remove the empty hanger from the rod every time you take an article of clothing out. Store the hanger elsewhere until you need it again. Your "hanger bank" can be in a basket on the floor or a section of rod that is otherwise not useful for hanging clothes. This will also save you from having to search for a hanger every time you want to hang something up. Invest in some skinny hangers to save space, and return wire hangers to the dry cleaners, as they can damage clothing over time.
A: Empty hangers eat up a lot of space in your closet. Only keep as many as will neatly fit on the rod and still give you some room for sliding. Use this as a guide for how many clothes to keep. If you are at maximum hanger usage, you must eliminate an item for every new item you purchase rather than buying more hangers. One way to make more sliding room on the rod is to remove the empty hanger from the rod every time you take an article of clothing out. Store the hanger elsewhere until you need it again. Your "hanger bank" can be in a basket on the floor or a section of rod that is otherwise not useful for hanging clothes. This will also save you from having to search for a hanger every time you want to hang something up. Invest in some skinny hangers to save space, and return wire hangers to the dry cleaners, as they can damage clothing over time.
Q: My pantry is very narrow and I always end up having to move things just to find what I'm looking for. Stuff in the back tends to get forgotten. Do you have any suggestions for making things easier to see?
A: I feel your pain, because I have a tiny narrow pantry too. My solution is to store as much as I can in deep, shallow, labeled containers that can be stacked one on top of the other, rather than in taller containers that are placed several rows deep. Aside from giving each container an "oceanfront view" so that you can see everything (nothing else is placed behind them), the wider opening makes scooping out flour or sugar with a measuring cup much easier. You can place small bags of similar items (pasta, rice or chips, pretzels, etc.) together in one container if needed. I also use a door rack for storing bottles of condiments, oils and vinegar that might otherwise get lost in the deep recesses of the shelves. The photo above illustrates what I mean. You'll be amazed at how much you can get into your tiny pantry without sacrificing visibility when organized this way!
A: I feel your pain, because I have a tiny narrow pantry too. My solution is to store as much as I can in deep, shallow, labeled containers that can be stacked one on top of the other, rather than in taller containers that are placed several rows deep. Aside from giving each container an "oceanfront view" so that you can see everything (nothing else is placed behind them), the wider opening makes scooping out flour or sugar with a measuring cup much easier. You can place small bags of similar items (pasta, rice or chips, pretzels, etc.) together in one container if needed. I also use a door rack for storing bottles of condiments, oils and vinegar that might otherwise get lost in the deep recesses of the shelves. The photo above illustrates what I mean. You'll be amazed at how much you can get into your tiny pantry without sacrificing visibility when organized this way!
Q: How can I keep track of my daughter’s hair ties? She has so many, yet we always have to go fishing through the junk drawer to find one and can never find the right color.
A: A cardboard toilet paper tube should do the trick! Simply place them around the tube when not in use to make it easier to find the exact one you want.
A: A cardboard toilet paper tube should do the trick! Simply place them around the tube when not in use to make it easier to find the exact one you want.
Q: I have lots of little bags in my pantry...mixes, spices, different rices and beans etc. I know some people use jars, but I like to keep them in their original packages so I have the cooking instructions. The problem is everything is a jumbled mess and i can't find anything. What do you suggest? -
A: Bins and baskets will solve your problem. Designate one for pastas/grains, another for mixes, and a third for spices and so on. Label each one. When you want to find something, simply take the whole basket off the shelf. No avalanches, less searching...it's a win-win. And no need to spend beaucoup bucks. The dollar store is a great place to find what you need, but even some empty shoe boxes should do the trick if you want to get started immediately.
A: Bins and baskets will solve your problem. Designate one for pastas/grains, another for mixes, and a third for spices and so on. Label each one. When you want to find something, simply take the whole basket off the shelf. No avalanches, less searching...it's a win-win. And no need to spend beaucoup bucks. The dollar store is a great place to find what you need, but even some empty shoe boxes should do the trick if you want to get started immediately.
Q: Every Christmas, I host our extended family for brunch and have to scurry around just before they arrive to clean up from the gift-opening aftermath. How can I make this easier so that I can actually relax and enjoy Christmas morning with the kids instead of nagging them to help me tidy up?
A: Christmas morning should be fun and positive, not filled with the stress and contention that often accompany entertaining. Before you begin opening gifts, give each family member a large garbage bag, a gallon zip-loc with his name on it, and a big box or laundry basket. Have them put wrappings right in their bag as they open each gift and place their opened presents in the laundry basket. Stocking contents and small items can go in the zip-loc bag. Before company comes, simply throw out the bags of wrapping and have each family member take their items to their rooms.
A: Christmas morning should be fun and positive, not filled with the stress and contention that often accompany entertaining. Before you begin opening gifts, give each family member a large garbage bag, a gallon zip-loc with his name on it, and a big box or laundry basket. Have them put wrappings right in their bag as they open each gift and place their opened presents in the laundry basket. Stocking contents and small items can go in the zip-loc bag. Before company comes, simply throw out the bags of wrapping and have each family member take their items to their rooms.
Q: After all this reorganizing, I'm struggling to remember where we put everything! Labels only help if I can remember the general location of an item, but what if I can't even remember which room it's in?
A: This is a really common and frustrating problem that can also lead to back-sliding if you aren't able to remember where to put items back when you're done using them! Many of my clients rely on a "Stuff Index" to help them until they get used to where everything is. This is simply an alphabetical list, by item, of all the things they've moved to a new "home". There is a column for the item name, a column for the room it's in, and a column for the precise location in that room where the items can be found/put away. Just remember to update your index if you decide you want to move that item's storage spot to somewhere else.
A: This is a really common and frustrating problem that can also lead to back-sliding if you aren't able to remember where to put items back when you're done using them! Many of my clients rely on a "Stuff Index" to help them until they get used to where everything is. This is simply an alphabetical list, by item, of all the things they've moved to a new "home". There is a column for the item name, a column for the room it's in, and a column for the precise location in that room where the items can be found/put away. Just remember to update your index if you decide you want to move that item's storage spot to somewhere else.
Q: I’ve been so good on my diet the past few months and really don’t want to regain the weight I’ve lost over the holidays. How do I enjoy a few goodies this season without going overboard?
A: Just as with everything else, the best way to keep control over your holiday eating is to have a plan. “Redeem” pre-printed treat card coupons each time you splurge on something that’s not on your diet. (See printable file below.) When the cards are done, so is your splurging, so use them wisely!
A: Just as with everything else, the best way to keep control over your holiday eating is to have a plan. “Redeem” pre-printed treat card coupons each time you splurge on something that’s not on your diet. (See printable file below.) When the cards are done, so is your splurging, so use them wisely!
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Q: The most stressful part of my day is coming up with a dinner plan that's quick, easy and doesn't include fast food or pizza! Any ideas for healthier options that don't break the bank?
A: Yes! You can eliminate a lot of the stress just by investing a few minutes each week in creating a meal plan. This allows you to plan ahead and maybe even do a little prep work during times that aren't so hectic. But even with that, there will always be days when a curve ball requires you to think on your feet. Identify some easy "pantry meals" that use only shelf stable items from your pantry or freezer and can thrown together quickly. Check out the Meal Planning and Recipes section of this website. If preparing something in your own kitchen is totally out, grab a rotisserie chicken, a salad from the salad bar, and a loaf of fresh french bread from the grocery store on your way home.
Click here for more tips and advice on creating weekly meal plans that works for your family.
A: Yes! You can eliminate a lot of the stress just by investing a few minutes each week in creating a meal plan. This allows you to plan ahead and maybe even do a little prep work during times that aren't so hectic. But even with that, there will always be days when a curve ball requires you to think on your feet. Identify some easy "pantry meals" that use only shelf stable items from your pantry or freezer and can thrown together quickly. Check out the Meal Planning and Recipes section of this website. If preparing something in your own kitchen is totally out, grab a rotisserie chicken, a salad from the salad bar, and a loaf of fresh french bread from the grocery store on your way home.
Click here for more tips and advice on creating weekly meal plans that works for your family.
Q: Now that winter has arrived, we always end up with a pile of wet shoes and boots on the front entry mat. It looks so cluttered and makes getting in and out of the door a challenge! What is your suggestion for keeping it neater without sacrificing my wood floors?
A: I have the same problem in my house, especially since I have a tiny entry way! Purchase an inexpensive boot tray or two ($4 from Walmart) and fill it with pebbles from a garden store. The tray/s can be stored underneath a bench or table in your entryway, if you have one.
A: I have the same problem in my house, especially since I have a tiny entry way! Purchase an inexpensive boot tray or two ($4 from Walmart) and fill it with pebbles from a garden store. The tray/s can be stored underneath a bench or table in your entryway, if you have one.
Q: I have three different sized beds in my home and often end up making a mess of my linen closet just trying to find the size sheets I need. How can I make it easier?
A: I have two suggestions: 1) If you have room, store sheets in the closet of the bedroom where they are used. This has the added benefit of making middle-of-the-night sheet changes easier, if necessary. If that’s not possible, 2) choose a specific color for each size or use solid for one size, stripes or plaid for another and patterns for the third.
A: I have two suggestions: 1) If you have room, store sheets in the closet of the bedroom where they are used. This has the added benefit of making middle-of-the-night sheet changes easier, if necessary. If that’s not possible, 2) choose a specific color for each size or use solid for one size, stripes or plaid for another and patterns for the third.
Q: I often pick up cards or gifts for specific people throughout the year but then can't remember what I did with them when it's time to actually give them. How can I keep better track of them?
A: Every home needs a designated spot for storing gift-wrapping supplies (paper, gift bags, tissue, bows, ribbon, tags, tape and scissors). If you don't already have one, make one! This is an ideal spot to set up a bin where you can store gifts for future giving. Likewise, establish a file for greeting cards and organize it by occasion. This way, you will always know exactly where to find things when you need them. You can purchase greeting card organizers like the one below, or simply make your own using an accordion file or even a shoebox with some homemade dividers cut from card stock. Place a sticky note with the intended recipient's name on each gift item or card so you don't forget who you bought it for. The gift bin is also a good place to store new, unopened items that could be used as generic gifts...perhaps something you originally bought for yourself but decided not to use?
A: Every home needs a designated spot for storing gift-wrapping supplies (paper, gift bags, tissue, bows, ribbon, tags, tape and scissors). If you don't already have one, make one! This is an ideal spot to set up a bin where you can store gifts for future giving. Likewise, establish a file for greeting cards and organize it by occasion. This way, you will always know exactly where to find things when you need them. You can purchase greeting card organizers like the one below, or simply make your own using an accordion file or even a shoebox with some homemade dividers cut from card stock. Place a sticky note with the intended recipient's name on each gift item or card so you don't forget who you bought it for. The gift bin is also a good place to store new, unopened items that could be used as generic gifts...perhaps something you originally bought for yourself but decided not to use?
Q: Do you have any suggestions for putting away strings of Christmas lights? I always get them so tangled they are a bear to get apart the next year. Any suggestions you have would be greatly appreciated.
A: I would suggest wrapping each string around one of those cardboard tubes from the center of a roll of paper towels, toilet paper or wrapping paper. You can even cut a small notch in one end of the tube to tuck the end of the string in so that it stays wound. This also helps you find the end of the string easily when you go to unwrap them next year.
A: I would suggest wrapping each string around one of those cardboard tubes from the center of a roll of paper towels, toilet paper or wrapping paper. You can even cut a small notch in one end of the tube to tuck the end of the string in so that it stays wound. This also helps you find the end of the string easily when you go to unwrap them next year.
Q: What's the best way to store all my containers so that the lids don't end up all over the place or lost?
A: First, make sure all of your containers have lids and all your lids have containers to save from wasting time searching for a lid that doesn't exist or wasting space on a containerless lid! Then "file" all your lids together by size in a small bin or basket so that you can easily see what you have and find the size you need. Nesting the bottoms together saves a ton of space. When purchasing new containers, try to buy in sets whenever possible. This makes it easier to nest them and often the lids are interchangeable for different size containers within the same set.
A: First, make sure all of your containers have lids and all your lids have containers to save from wasting time searching for a lid that doesn't exist or wasting space on a containerless lid! Then "file" all your lids together by size in a small bin or basket so that you can easily see what you have and find the size you need. Nesting the bottoms together saves a ton of space. When purchasing new containers, try to buy in sets whenever possible. This makes it easier to nest them and often the lids are interchangeable for different size containers within the same set.
Q: I’m so tired of wasting food that gets lost and forgotten about in the back of my refrigerator. How can I avoid this?
A: There’s an easy solution to this problem! Simply add a few small baskets like the ones below (think dollar store!) to hold small items or containers that might otherwise get lost or overlooked. You can designate each basket for specific categories, such as lunchbox or snack items, yogurts, leftovers, etc. to make it even easier to find things.
A: There’s an easy solution to this problem! Simply add a few small baskets like the ones below (think dollar store!) to hold small items or containers that might otherwise get lost or overlooked. You can designate each basket for specific categories, such as lunchbox or snack items, yogurts, leftovers, etc. to make it even easier to find things.
Q: Is there an easy way to remember what all the laundry care symbols mean on clothing tags?
A: Yes! Keeping up with your laundry is hard enough without having to guess at this! Print out this PDF from Textile Industry Affairs and post it on your laundry room wall!
A: Yes! Keeping up with your laundry is hard enough without having to guess at this! Print out this PDF from Textile Industry Affairs and post it on your laundry room wall!
Q: I'm trying to reduce the amount of bleach and other harsh cleaners in my home, but I love the convenience of having Clorox wipes at the ready to clean up spills in the kitchen. Sometimes I need more than just paper towels. Do you have any suggestions for an environmentally-friendly solution?
A: You don't need bleach to effectively clean up most of the yuckiness that occurs in the kitchen. I like to keep a jar of reusable cleaning cloths on my kitchen counter. All you need is 8-12 clean rags (a pack of 9 at Walmart costs about $3-4), an airtight glass jar, 2 tablespoons castile soap (a version with tea tree oil will give you an added boost of bacteria-fighting power), 3 cups hot water, 1 tablespoon borax (this, along with the vinegar, will help prevent the rags from molding in the jar), and 1 cup vinegar. Mix together the first three ingredients until the borax dissolves and then add the vinegar. Layer half of the folded rags in the jar and pour half of the solution over top. Then add the remaining rags to the jar and pour the rest of the solution over top. Make sure the solution gets evenly absorbed by all the rags. Make sure to start with clean rags and use the hottest water possible. Keep the jar closed and use these up within a week or two.
A: You don't need bleach to effectively clean up most of the yuckiness that occurs in the kitchen. I like to keep a jar of reusable cleaning cloths on my kitchen counter. All you need is 8-12 clean rags (a pack of 9 at Walmart costs about $3-4), an airtight glass jar, 2 tablespoons castile soap (a version with tea tree oil will give you an added boost of bacteria-fighting power), 3 cups hot water, 1 tablespoon borax (this, along with the vinegar, will help prevent the rags from molding in the jar), and 1 cup vinegar. Mix together the first three ingredients until the borax dissolves and then add the vinegar. Layer half of the folded rags in the jar and pour half of the solution over top. Then add the remaining rags to the jar and pour the rest of the solution over top. Make sure the solution gets evenly absorbed by all the rags. Make sure to start with clean rags and use the hottest water possible. Keep the jar closed and use these up within a week or two.
Q: I have a drawer full of tangled chargers, cords and earbuds. How do I keep them usable and neat?
A: Ah yes...a common problem in the Information Age! Here are a couple of solutions from our Simple Solutions Gallery that can help. Put those old empty prescription bottles to good use as an earbud container for your purse, backpack or even to keep in a drawer. Bundle up cords and chargers with ease using varying sizes of claw clips you can buy at the dollar store. And while we're on the topic of chargers, make sure you label your chargers as soon as you get a new device or while you still remember which device it's for. This helps to avoid that drawer full of mystery chargers you are afraid to throw away!
A: Ah yes...a common problem in the Information Age! Here are a couple of solutions from our Simple Solutions Gallery that can help. Put those old empty prescription bottles to good use as an earbud container for your purse, backpack or even to keep in a drawer. Bundle up cords and chargers with ease using varying sizes of claw clips you can buy at the dollar store. And while we're on the topic of chargers, make sure you label your chargers as soon as you get a new device or while you still remember which device it's for. This helps to avoid that drawer full of mystery chargers you are afraid to throw away!
Q: Now that school has started, I'm getting inundated by all the papers my kids bring home in their backpacks every day! How do I keep myself and my kids organized?
A: This is such a common question, especially at Back to School time. First, establish a "backpack unpack" routine with your kids each day after school. Train them to sort all homework materials/papers into one designated spot or "homework station", and all the other non-homework papers into a separate "inbox" for you to sort through later. At the elementary school level, this second pile usually consists of completed classwork or projects for your review, artwork, informational fliers, permission slips, and correspondence from the school. Once homework is completed, it should immediately go back into the backpack to be returned to school. This reduces the chances of it getting lost or forgotten. Then, set aside a time each day when you can sort through all the papers in your inbox:
A: This is such a common question, especially at Back to School time. First, establish a "backpack unpack" routine with your kids each day after school. Train them to sort all homework materials/papers into one designated spot or "homework station", and all the other non-homework papers into a separate "inbox" for you to sort through later. At the elementary school level, this second pile usually consists of completed classwork or projects for your review, artwork, informational fliers, permission slips, and correspondence from the school. Once homework is completed, it should immediately go back into the backpack to be returned to school. This reduces the chances of it getting lost or forgotten. Then, set aside a time each day when you can sort through all the papers in your inbox:
- Review the completed classwork just to make sure your child is grasping basic concepts. Make note of areas of concern to address with the teacher and/or review with him later, but do not keep completed work except as needed for this purpose. If desired, you can also set aside in a designated keepsakes folder a few pieces of work that are particularly meaningful, but keep this to a minimum!
- Select artwork for display, discussion, or as keepsakes. You can follow the suggestions given in response to the question below for ideas on how to handle artwork.
- Most informational fliers and school correspondence can be tossed once you've read them. Those requiring action should be added to your daily To Do/Action pile. File important school information you think you may refer back to later in your reference files.
- Permission slips should be signed and returned to the backpack immediately, if possible. Otherwise, add them to your To Do/Action pile.
Q: I have a whole bunch of dead electronic devices that no longer work. I can't donate them because no one would want them, and I don't feel right just throwing them in the trash. What should I do with them?
A: Great news! Staples will take many broken and outdated electronics, rechargeable batteries and ink/toner cartridges and recycle them for you for FREE. You may even be able to get store credit for some of them. For a fee, they will also pick up from offices with 20+ people. Click here for more details!
A: Great news! Staples will take many broken and outdated electronics, rechargeable batteries and ink/toner cartridges and recycle them for you for FREE. You may even be able to get store credit for some of them. For a fee, they will also pick up from offices with 20+ people. Click here for more details!
Q: Can you recommend a way to store Barbie dolls and all their accessories? Right now I shove them all in a bin, but then my daughter has to dump the whole thing to find something.
A: A lot depends on how many you have and how likely your daughter is to maintain the organizational system you set up. I would definitely store dolls, clothes and accessories each in separate drawers or containers. You could try a silverware tray inside a larger bin or a divided storage container similar to the one pictured below for keeping accessories organized. I also love this pocket organizer idea from Pinterest!
A: A lot depends on how many you have and how likely your daughter is to maintain the organizational system you set up. I would definitely store dolls, clothes and accessories each in separate drawers or containers. You could try a silverware tray inside a larger bin or a divided storage container similar to the one pictured below for keeping accessories organized. I also love this pocket organizer idea from Pinterest!
Q: My linen closet is so stuffed full, it's hard to keep it neat and find anything. Any suggestions for keeping it better organized?
A: First, try paring down the amount of linens you have. A good rule of thumb is 2 sets of sheets per bed MAX and 2 sets of towels per person MAX. Next, if there's room, consider storing towels in the bathrooms, sheets in the closet of the bedroom where they will be used, and table linens in the dining room sideboard or china cabinet; reserve the linen closet for bulky blankets and extra pillows. If all else fails, use shelf dividers like the ones pictured below to keep piles from toppling over and remember that folding neatly saves space.
A: First, try paring down the amount of linens you have. A good rule of thumb is 2 sets of sheets per bed MAX and 2 sets of towels per person MAX. Next, if there's room, consider storing towels in the bathrooms, sheets in the closet of the bedroom where they will be used, and table linens in the dining room sideboard or china cabinet; reserve the linen closet for bulky blankets and extra pillows. If all else fails, use shelf dividers like the ones pictured below to keep piles from toppling over and remember that folding neatly saves space.